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"Cruel twist" in death of policeman at engagement party

<p>The joyous occasion of an engagement party, brimming with excitement and anticipation, turned into a scene of profound sorrow and disbelief for Lilly Watts and her loved ones when, in a devastating turn of events, her fiancé – Senior Constable Liam Trimmer – <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/finance/legal/young-wa-cop-dies-at-his-own-engagement-party" target="_blank" rel="noopener">met with a fatal accident</a>, leaving behind shattered dreams and a future that will forever remain incomplete.</p> <p>It has now been revealed that Liam, a dedicated member of the Western Australia Police Force, wasn't just set to embark on a new chapter of his life with Lilly. Their intention, as they celebrated their impending union, was also to announce the impending arrival of their first child. </p> <p>In the wake of this heartbreaking incident, in a gesture of solidarity and support, friends, family and even strangers have rallied around Lilly in her time of need. <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/lets-support-lilly-watts-and-baby-trimmer" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A GoFundMe campaign</a> was launched to provide some solace amidst the darkness that has enveloped her life. The outpouring of generosity has been overwhelming, with more than $52,000 raised in just six hours since the campaign's inception. </p> <p>Melinda Kelly, an old friend of Lilly's, wrote: "Tragically, on Saturday night, Lilly’s world was shattered by a freak accident that claimed the life of her beloved fiancé, Senior Constable Liam Trimmer.</p> <p>"The evening was meant to be a joyous celebration of Lilly and Liam’s recent engagement and announcing their pregnancy, a huge milestone in their journey together. Friends and family gathered to share in their happiness. In a cruel twist of events, Liam’s life was cut short leaving behind a void that can never be filled.</p> <p>"Lilly, a dedicated Clinical Registered Nurse at Royal Perth Hospital, now finds herself navigating uncharted waters. Not only has she lost her soulmate, but she also carries the precious gift of new life within her. At almost 14 weeks pregnant, Lilly now faces the prospect of raising a child without her beloved partner, while also grappling with the financial responsibilities that come with homeownership.</p> <p>"This GoFundMe campaign seeks to provide some solace amidst the darkness that has enveloped Lilly’s life. While no amount of money can bring back Liam or erase the pain of his loss, we hope to ease the burden that now weighs heavily on Lilly’s shoulders. The funds raised will enable her to access the support she needs, from counselling to covering the costs of daily living and preparing for the arrival of her baby.</p> <p>"Lilly’s resilience and unwavering spirit have always been her defining qualities, and now, more than ever, she needs our love and support. Let us come together as a community to rally around her in this time of need, offering whatever assistance we can to help her navigate the challenging road ahead. Together, we can help light the path forward for Lilly and honor the memory of the man she loved so dearly."</p> <p>Liam Trimmer's contributions to the police force have not gone unnoticed. Described as "skilful" and possessing a "great sense of humour" and "passion to excel" by his colleagues, Liam was a respected member of the force who approached his duties with dedication and courage. His loss has been deeply felt within the police community, where he was admired for his unwavering commitment to serving and protecting the public.</p> <p>As tributes pour in from across the region, it is evident that Liam's legacy will endure through the lives he touched and the memories he leaves behind. </p> <p><em>Images: Facebook \ GoFundMe</em></p>

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“That was the first time I felt embarrassed”: Baz Luhrmann's daughter opens up on rumours

<p>Baz Luhrmann’s daughter Lilly has opened up about what it was like going through school with famous parents.</p> <p>The 19-year-old daughter of the globally-renowned<em> Elvis</em> director and his four-time Oscar winning wife, costume designer Catherine Martin, has been educated in both Australia and Manhattan.</p> <p>Speaking on an episode of the <em>Under the Gloss</em> podcast, Lilly said it was much harder growing up in Australia as her surname sparked more interest down under.</p> <p>She mentioned a time when she was being driven to school, and a story had emerged on the radio that her father was “gay”, citing a report that he and his wife slept in different bedrooms.</p> <p>“I did get followed to school by a truck that was paparazzi … They were bullying my dad there for a little bit there. I specifically remember I was driving in the car, on the radio, this guy was like, “Today we’re going to be discussing, is Baz Luhrmann gay? Breaking news, they sleep in two different bedrooms”,” Lilly said.</p> <p>“And I went to school, and the kids were like, “Is your dad gay?”</p> <p>“That was the first time I felt embarrassed … Not embarrassed, but more like, “Why are these people talking about my dad? Why are they making fun?” I’m like, “They just have different sleeping schedules".</p> <p>The 19-year-old didn’t specify when the incident happened but mentioned it was the “first time” she felt her upbringing wasn’t entirely normal.</p> <p>“I mean, I’m not traumatised for life by it. I’ve gotten over it. There’s worse things to go through. But it was the first time I was aware something was a bit amiss,” she said.</p> <p>“It was pretty intense in Australia, then we moved to New York, and no one cared. So that was really good.”</p> <p>After relocating to the states and changing schools, Lilly, who also has a younger brother, William, admitted she told students that her dad was in marketing because she was concerned about “friendships being in-genuine”.</p> <p>“For the first year, I lied about it. I made friends, and I had to tell them about my life … I was going to Paris, I’m from Australia, and they were like, “beep, beep, beep” this is not adding up, girl,” she said.</p> <p>“My best friend, who’s still my best friend, Chris, thought I was a compulsive liar. He started a whole rumour about me that I was making up my Aussie accent.”</p> <p>Soon after The Great Gatsby was released in 2013, the <em>New York Times</em> reported that Luhrmann and Martin, who have been married for over two decades, sleep on separate floors of their townhouse in New York.</p> <p>In an interview a few months after the release, Luhrmann told <em>The Daily Telegraph</em> that it was not just the case in New York but in all their homes, including their iconic Iona in Sydney.</p> <p>“For a very simple reason: just because we’re constantly surrounded by people,” he said.</p> <p>“And you know the Baz team and the CM team – they’re large teams, and they’re great, and we get together, but they all live different hours because they do completely different jobs.</p> <p>“But our rule is, no matter where we are and what we do – and I said it in passing, and I’m not sure I should have because it used to be our secret – every Saturday night, we stay in a hotel.</p> <p>“We have done that, I think, since we first realised public life would become a holiday you never come home from, and that was around the time of <em>Strictly Ballroom</em> (1992).”</p> <p><em>Image credit: Instagram</em></p>

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Can you rid yourself of 2020’s financial stress as we head into 2021?

<p>2020 has been a tough year for nearly everyone, and that may be especially true for retirees and those nearing retirement who suddenly are worried about whether their careful planning and years of saving could be upended by events beyond their control.</p> <p>After all, retirement is supposed to be a pleasurable and satisfying time when you kick back and enjoy the fruits of all those decades of labor. That’s difficult to do if you’re jittery about a volatile stock market, or you fret over every expenditure because you aren’t sure whether your savings can go the distance in a lengthy retirement.</p> <p>As this year draws to a close, and we look toward 2021, plenty of people still have worries. For them – and maybe for you – the future is uncertain. But frankly, the future is always uncertain, and worrying about your finances without taking charge of your situation does no one any good.</p> <p>So, if you’re already in retirement or plan to be there soon, how can you reduce some of that financial stress that’s weighing you down in these tumultuous times? Let me offer a few ideas:</p> <ul> <li><strong>Take control.</strong> Just stewing and letting the emotional strain rule your days and nights does no good. Instead, focus on actions you can take to help reduce some of that stress. Often, just doing something – anything – can help you feel better. Review your financial assets so you truly know where you stand. Those assets might include savings accounts, investment accounts, retirement accounts, life insurance, real property or other items. You can’t create a plan unless you know exactly where you stand, so taking stock of things should be the first step. That way you aren’t operating in the dark. And what about the “T” word? Taxes! Have you imparted tax-efficiency as a part of your retirement plan? Do you know your options when it comes to this certainty?</li> <li><strong>Reconsider the timing of your retirement.</strong> Whenever the economy is shaky, it’s best to consider your options ahead of time so you can be prepared before problems arise. If you’re still working, for example, and you suddenly lose your job, one option may be to retire earlier than you originally planned and take Social Security. That can come with downsides, though. If you begin drawing Social Security before your full retirement age (between 66 and 67 for most people) you receive a reduced monthly check. That could cost you tens of thousands of dollars over a long retirement. Conversely, if your job situation is stable but you're worried your nest egg is inadequate, consider postponing retirement. That will allow you to save more, potentially increase your Social Security benefits, and can potentially give your investments time to recover from temporary market declines.</li> <li><strong>Review your budget and clean up bad habits.</strong> Many of us have less-than-stellar financial habits that we developed over the years. Those patterns of behavior don’t magically disappear as you approach retirement. You need to be intentional about changing bad habits so you aren’t spending more money than you need to – or should. To help you determine the difference between necessary and discretionary spending, review the past six months to a year of expenditures. As you review your spending, think beyond all those momentary, one-time splurges. Include your regular household bills, such as utilities, cable and cell phone service. You might be able to save money through a family plan, by bundling services, or by cutting the cord altogether.</li> <li><strong>Evaluate the risk in your portfolio.</strong> Perhaps you have had an aggressive investment strategy, and that’s how you accumulated a big nest egg that (you hope) was designed to carry you through decades of retirement. But, in an uncertain market and with retirement already here or close at hand, it may be wise to re-evaluate how much risk you’re holding in your portfolio. Now would be a good time to diversify and consider other investment options so you can help protect what you already have.</li> </ul> <p>Remember, though, that if your unsteady financial situation is getting the better of you, you don’t have to go it alone. Find an experienced financial professional who can help you develop a plan that can potentially ease at least some of your worries.</p> <p>It’s possible to get back on track financially – and, hopefully, set aside those concerns that could mar your enjoyment of life in retirement.</p> <p class="p1"><em>Written by Alan Becker, president and CEO of <a href="http://www.rsgusa.net">Retirement Solutions Group</a> and author of Return on Investment or Reliability of Income? The True Meaning of ROI in Retirement.</em> </p>

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Nick Kyrgios hits back after Boris Becker calls him a rat

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Australian tennis star Nick Kyrgios has clashed with former World No. 1 Boris Becker over the ongoing coronavirus pandemic and the way that the tennis community is handling it.</p> <p>Kyrgios called out German tennis star Alexander Zverev on Monday after he was spotting at a club in the French Riveria.</p> <p>Zverev played at Novak Djokovic's Adria Tour in Belgrade and Croatia earlier this month which led to four competitors contracting coronavirus. </p> <p>Zverev claimed he would "follow self-isolating guidelines" but apologised when footage emerged of him in the club.</p> <p>“No matter how lazy, sloppy and selfish players are about following public health guidelines mid-pandemic, they sure can spring to quick action to cover their asses,” respected tennis journalist Ben Rothenberg said.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Sascha Zverev six days ago after Adria Tour coronavirus cluster: <br /><br />“I deeply apologize to anyone that I have put at risk...I will proceed to follow self-isolating guidelines...stay safe 🙏.”<br /><br />Sascha Zverev four hours ago: <a href="https://t.co/vqBXvYdxkv">pic.twitter.com/vqBXvYdxkv</a></p> — Ben Rothenberg (@BenRothenberg) <a href="https://twitter.com/BenRothenberg/status/1277307634807382016?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 28, 2020</a></blockquote> <p>Zverev tested negative to coronavirus last week, but Kyrgios was quick to slam the behaviour.</p> <p>“Sascha Zverev again, man. Again, again, how selfish can you be?” Kyrgios said.</p> <p>“If you have the audacity to put out a tweet that you made your management write on your behalf, saying you’re going to self-isolate for 14 days, and apologising to the general public about putting their health at risk, at least have the audacity to stay inside for 14 days.</p> <p>“Jesus, man. P***ing me off. This tennis world is p***ing me off, seriously. How selfish can you all get?”</p> <p>Becker quickly jumped to Zverev's defence, calling Kyrgios a "rat".</p> <p>“Don’t like no rats! Anybody telling off fellow sportsman/woman is no friend of mine!” Becker posted to Twitter on Tuesday.</p> <p>“Look yourself in the mirror and think your (sic) better than us.”</p> <p>Kyrgios defended his comments.</p> <p>“For goodness sake Boris, I’m not competing or trying to throw anyone under the bus,” the 25-year-old replied.</p> <p>“It’s a global pandemic and if someone is as idiotic as Alex to do what he has done, I’ll call him out for it. Simple.”</p> <p>However, Becker continued to call Kyrgios a "rat".</p> <p>“We all live in the pandemic called COVID-19! It’s terrible and it killed to many lives,” the German posted. “We should protect our families/loved ones and follow the guidelines but still don’t like rats.</p> <p>“(Zverev) broke the quarantine rules and he should be ashamed of himself! He is a role model for many tennis fans a bright star on the horizon but still don’t like rats.</p> <p>“There is an unspoken understanding between athletes! Whatever happens on the court stays there including the lockers! Nobody will talk about it.”</p> <p>Kyrgios continued to hold firm and poked fun at Becker.</p> <p>“Rats? For holding someone accountable? Strange way to think of it champion, I’m just looking out for people,” Kyrgios tweeted.</p> <p>“WHEN my family and families all over the world have respectfully done the right thing. And you have a goose waving his arms around, imma say something.</p> <p>“(Becker) is a bigger doughnut than I thought. Can hit a volley, obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed though.”</p> <p>After receiving massive backlash on Twitter for his remarks, Becker joked with Kyrgios.</p> <p>“Your funny guy … how is it down under? Respect all the guidelines?”</p> <p>Kyrgios wasn't having any of it and bluntly replied.</p> <p>“Haha nah bro I’m good, don’t act like you’re my friend now because you got sat down.”</p> <p>This isn't the first time Kyrgios has called someone out, as he slammed Novak Djokovic and his wife for their "boneheaded decision" to organise the tournament during a pandemic.</p> <p>“Prayers up to all the players that have contracted COVID-19,” Kyrgios tweeted last week.</p> <p>“Don’t @ me for anything I’ve done that has been ‘irresponsible’ or classified as ‘stupidity’ — this takes the cake.”</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Boris Becker separates from wife after nine years of marriage

<p>After nine years of marriage, former German tennis star Boris Becker has separated from his wife Lilly Becker.</p> <p>On Tuesday, a representative for Boris confirmed that the couple were ending their marriage.</p> <p>“The decision after a 13-year-long relationship and nine years of marriage wasn’t an easy one,” Boris’ lawyer, Christian-Oliver Moser, told German news agency DPA.</p> <p>The lawyer said the couple are focused on their 8-year-old son, Amadeus, during this time and that their split was “amicable”.</p> <p>In June 2009, Boris and Lilly wed in Switzerland, announcing the same month they were expecting a child together.</p> <p>At the time, Boris told German newspaper <em>Bild</em>: “Yes, we’re going to be parents. We are really looking forward to our baby.”</p> <p>When Amadeus was born, the athlete said: “We are all overcome and rejoice in our life together with our son and a sibling for Noah, Elias and Anna.”</p> <p>Boris has two children with his previous wife, Barbara Feltus.</p> <p>Boris and Barbara were married from 1993 to 2001 and had Noah, 24, and Elias, 18.</p> <p>He also has 18-year-old daughter, Anna Ermakova, from a former relationship with model Angela Ermakova.</p> <p>At the age of just 17, Boris first won a tournament at Wimbledon in 1985. </p> <p>Since retiring from tennis, he has pursued different ventures including coaching tennis star Novak Djokovic for three years. </p>

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